If I am having a mid-life crisis at 35, does that mean that I am only going to live until I am 70 ? Is that how it works ? Sometimes, I want to rub ashes in my hair and wear a sackcloth (that is torn). Those times are not the normal. MOST of the time, I want to look young and beautiful, and like I have just stepped out of Anthropologie. I do not want wrinkles, or gray hairs. Ok? Is that so bad ? I know it is a sin, ahhh vanity . My birthday is rapidly approaching, a week to be exact, and I will be 36. Bloody Hell, ok, thats bad, I have started swearing in british. This could be the dimentia setting in…. Woops…thats not me in that photo. oh well.